September 2025

When Ciara legally changed her son’s last name to include her husband’s, Russell Wilson, social media erupted—and rapper Future’s own response, “idgaf Congratulations,” only added fuel to the fire. But beyond the headlines, there’s a serious question parents everywhere ask: Can you legally change your child’s name without the other parent’s consent? In Minnesota, the answer isn’t simple. Courts weigh parental rights, abandonment, and most importantly, the best interests of the child.

Shifting its focus from family separation to family preservation—here’s a look at Minnesota’s approach that emphasizes prevention, support, and keeping both parents engaged in their children’s lives. From laws protecting cultural ties to school-based programs that reduce unnecessary CPS involvement, the state has found ways to strengthen families instead of breaking them apart. At Integrous Resolution Services, LLC, I share this commitment by helping parents resolve conflict, prevent absent parenting, and build lasting agreements that give children the stability they need to thrive.